For those over-analytical ladies, like myself: here's a really honest article about dating, its rules and consequences, possible heartaches and all.

"The important part is facing that this pain is a possibility, and making yourself hear what is so. Not what you want to be so, not what romantic comedies say will be so, but what is actually so. He or she does not wish to continue seeing you, and the possibility for that relationship is now gone. Which sucks, but it doesn't MEAN anything (remember that nasty "meaning" trick we're all so good at?). If this guy doesn't fall-down adore you, it MEANS NOTHING about your status as a worthy and valuable human being. It also means nothing about your ability to find partnership in the future. Likewise, if a guy rejects you, it doesn't MEAN anything about men in general. All it means is that this one was a douchebag. And that you found out early enough to recover, pick yourself up, and get back to work." The rest HERE:

----http://www.huffingtonpost.com/melissa-lafsky/the-5-truths-about-dating_b_906508.html

And also, for those who love The Strokes as much as I do. Free Strokes covers and downloads! HERE:

----http://stereogum.com/767531/stroked-tribute-to-is-this-it/mp3s/